Getting the Love You Want -It doesn’t *just happen*

“Helen and I like to think of two people in a conscious love relationship as companion stars. Each person is a unique individual ablaze with potential. One is just as important as the other, and each has a unique and equally valid view of the universe. Yet, together, they form a greater whole, kept connected by the pull of mutual love and respect. They mirror the interconnected universe.” ― Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. could have been written by me. IT WASN’T, but it could have been. I have actually lived Part I and Part II, both with help of Part III. No, I wasn’t purposely following the book for the last forty years…

Let me explain:

The first part of the book is about “Unconscious Partnership” which could very easily define my first marriage…